La Dolce Dress Code

Dining out in Italy isn’t just about the food—it’s an aesthetic experience, and increasingly, a social ritual. After nearly five years of living here, I’ve learned that Italians dress for dinner the way they plate pasta: with intention and care. Unlike my West Coast roots, where post-yoga errand outfits double as dinner attire, Italy calls for a bit more polish. Sportswear (think leggings, sweatpants, baseball caps) is a no-go unless you’re true athleisure royalty. Shoes matter—clean, elegant sneakers or polished loafers are fine, but leave the Crocs and flip flops behind unless you’re going for something intentionally ironic (paired with a Chanel suit, maybe?). Even when I travel, I pack relaxed tailored trousers and button-downs, focusing on fabrics that wear their wrinkles well and transition easily from day to night (linen in summer, soft knits as it cools down). I always keep a travel steamer close—just in case. A look that says “I tried” goes far in Italy: pressed shirts, brushed hair, manicured hands, maybe a pair of gold hoops and a small clutch to pull it all together. Bottom line? Here, being overdressed is rarely a faux pas—dressing well is part of the pleasure.

Get inspired for your next trip—and shop our edit of effortlessly polished pieces below, perfect for summer into early fall.